Voluntary admission

This is a voluntary addmission required by the SANE WORLD Honesty is the best policy

I am in the habit of telling lies and only lies So guys never take maddy seriously. I have nothing original to offer And I am very jealous of those who are original. I envy them and salute them. I will complain to God for not giving this tool. But I am grateful to God for giving me so many other tools. I can beg borrow and steal. I can cut copy and paste. (God’s greatest gift to Internet users.) I love to gossip. If by any chance you find any thing of yours on my page Please do not hesitate to stake your claim. Maddy like a good boy will acknowledge it Or if you are very strong and well built Hit the ‘delete button’ meekly. Maddy believes in ‘non violence’ Not by choice but by compulsion. Last but not the least with due apology to God (I have not confessed this even to GOD) Maddy is actually sleeping when people think he is meditating.

Me, an honest Self-Assessment

 

A self-reflective framework mapping behavioural patterns and friction points

 

PHASE 1: THE INITIATION TRAPS

·       FALSE STARTS

              He is all sizzle and no steak:

              He falls in love with the launch but leaves a graveyard of half- baked ideas. 

·       The Dreamer in Analysis Paralysis

              He spends his life building castles in the air

              while spinning his wheels on the ground. 

·       The Professional List-Maker      

        He mistakes the comfort of writing down a plan for the hard work of carrying, it out.  Furthermore, he makes numerous resolutions but lacks the sustained determination required to follow through and complete them. 

PHASE 2: THE EXECUTION FRICTION

·       The Flash in the Pan (fades early)

              He works by fits and starts:

              He burns with brilliant initial energy

              but fizzles out the moment the real work begins.

·      

The Almost Achiever (last-minute deficit)

              He is always just

              one step away from greatness,

              but he never actually takes that step.

              The Self-Made Architect of Unfinished  Business

 

 

·       CONCEPT MUSEUM

•               His life is a museum of brilliant concepts that never made it past the drawing board.

•             The Dopamine Vault (The Hoarder of Potential): 

        He derives deep psychological satisfaction simply            from 
        owning the possibility of a project. 
        By collecting resources, books, and 
        materials for projects he hasn't started, 
        he treats the preparation phase 
        as a substitute for actual achievement.         

 

PHASE 3: CORE FRICTION DRIVERS

·      

The Chronically Inert (lazy)    

He is fundamentally lazy,

choosing comfort and

systemic avoidance over

actively pursuing momentum.

 

·      

The Eleventh-Hour Responder (crisis driven)

              He does not do anything until and unless

              it is absolutely essential, thriving only under  severe pressure or imminent failure.

Behavioural Fallout under Crisis: Because he thrives only under severe pressure, his emotional regulation deteriorates as the deadline nears. The closer to the deadline, the more unpredictable his mood becomes—transitioning instantly from a joking demeanour 

to a high-tension state 

where he snaps at whoever is closest.

 

·       The Short-Cut Seeker

Out of all available paths to a destination, he automatically chooses the easiest one, willingly lowering his standards to avoid complex labour or personal strain.

 

·       The Convenience Addict

He will only act 

if a task is entirely frictionless, 

using any minor setup step 

or slight inconvenience as an iron-clad 

excuse to delay the work indefinitely.

He pathologically chooses comfort over progress, completely abandoning his goals whenever a task demands the slightest bit of extra physical or mental effort.

 

•  Attention Wanderer (easily distracted)

              He is easily distracted, losing focus at the arrival of any shiny new concept or modern         disruption.

 

 

• Interpersonal Friction.

    The Deflecting Humorist (With a Hidden Edge): On the surface, he is never serious, always joking, using humor as a defense mechanism to keep the world at bay. He quickly labels anyone likely to cause trouble at a site as a PONV (Person of Nuisance Value).

   

However, his mood is highly unpredictable. While he masks the onset of tension with jokes, his coping threshold is razor-thin: when the pressure peaks, he is liable to metaphorically "shoot" the person standing right in front of him. His wit is a velvet glove hiding a very tense, unpredictable iron fist.

 Inspite of all the above super deficiencies, I am grateful to the 

Almighty with whose help, attention, pity and love,

I could survive comfortably. Thank you God.

Reflections from a Seventy-Year Journey: Simple Truths for a Meaningful Life.

 

Looking back on seven decades of a long, bumpy, and turbulent journey, it becomes profoundly clear that the true reward of life is the journey itself, not the destination. Shaper of character, this path was made beautiful through divine intervention, the warmth of family and friends, and the vital lessons taught by critics. To navigate this earthly passage with grace, peace, and purpose, one must anchor themselves in simple, timeless truths that govern the soul, the mind, and the body.

 

There is but one God for all humanity, completely blind to differences in colour, creed, religion, or language. We are all branches of the same tree, bound together in universal brotherhood. True faith requires us to be deeply spiritual and religious, yet we must vigilantly guard our hearts against the cold rigidity of fanaticism. In our actions, our sole focus must be to perform our earthly duties honestly and truthfully, completely surrendering the results and rewards into the hands of the Almighty. True fulfilment is found in this surrender, alongside a deep compassion for the world. We must sympathize and empathize with the needy and underprivileged, actively giving back to society a portion of the blessings we have received. If someone approaches you with a dilemma, try your utmost to solve it; if you cannot, guide them kindly to where they might find relief.

 

Emotional discipline is the cornerstone of inner peace. Anger is a temporary madness, and any action taken in its grip is destined to end in disaster. Therefore, one must pause and think with absolute calmness before reacting to any provocation. Watch your words with vigilant care before they cross your lips; a bullet wounds the flesh, but a cruel word can permanently fracture a soul. When you must speak, be unshakeably firm but impeccably polite, ensuring your response is diplomatically correct. Just as anger blinds us, greed misleads us; any decision driven by greed will definitely be wrong. To keep the heart pure, we must conquer the illusions of lust, keeping our desires disciplined and aligned with the ethical norms of a civilized society. Finally, we must learn to adjust to people whose values differ from ours. Because shifting deep-rooted societal behaviours is incredibly difficult and requires divine intervention, we must accept that what cannot be cured must be endured.

 

True strength lies in utmost humility of thought and deed. We must fiercely dismantle our ego and pride, recognizing them as traps that separate us from truth. Never be judgmental of others, for everyone is fighting their own hidden battles. Instead, turn your gaze inward; always introspect and examine your own flaws. A person of integrity must always practice what they preach, ensuring their actions mirror their spoken values. When you are in the wrong, cast aside pride—accept your mistake gracefully and apologize sincerely. Life will bring moments of failure, and when it does, one must accept defeat with dignity and grace. Above all, to live with a clear conscience, one must master the divine art of forgetting and forgiving, releasing past hurts to protect the peace of the present.

 

To sustain this journey with dignity, the physical and mental vessels must be fiercely protected as sacred responsibilities. We must live happily within our available resources, embracing a comfortable life while avoiding the hollow trap of extravagance. True health requires us to exercise regularly to keep the body vital, and to eat a correct, natural diet—completely avoiding junk food to maintain our ideal weight. Rest is equally sacred; sleep at a regular time every night to allow the mind to heal. In an age of endless distraction, disconnect from the noise and excess of social media, which only drains mental energy and fuels false anxieties. Instead, sit in quiet reflection to plan your life carefully. Set practical, achievable goals and labour toward them with daily discipline. Remember that youth is a fleeting morning and old age is certain; save resources regularly during your productive years to ensure your later life is secure and independent. Walk softly upon this earth, maintaining an unshakeable respect for nature, women, and animals.

 

In sum, a life well-lived is not measured by material wealth or worldly triumphs, but by the depth of our contentment, the purity of our conduct, and the humility of our spirit. By mastering our emotions, guarding our words, and facing both victory and defeat with equal grace, we align ourselves with the divine. Every choice we make carries an absolute weight, and the theory that one has to pay for his sins reminds us that the energy we give to the world always returns to us. Let us live truthfully, give back generously to the society that nurtured us, and look inward with constant awareness. By honouring our bodies, respecting all of creation, and surrendering our egos to the one universal power, we transform the turbulent, bumpy journey of life into a rewarding and beautiful masterpiece.

Guest at Maddy's den

 

Hi! he is Alik . He has come to stay with us for a few days. Otto you give him company.

Happy New Year

 

Maddy meets his friend after fifty five years

  Hi Jimmy,

Here is a special treat for you. you wouldn't know the reason. I am extremely happy today

I have managed to trace Kaptaan Sahib after more than fifty years. He is a very wise man. A great computer expert, & a great teacher. Above all he is a wonderful human beings. He has advised that we at Maddy's den should sleep early, so that we can dream big. He is SAPNO KA SAUDAGAR.

He will help us in funding our dreams. Please add his contact details in your sharp brain. Name the folder AARAAMPUR .

So from today the slogan is 

'we will sleep early,

we will dream big,

we will pray for kaptaan sahibs welfare,

kaptaan sahib make our dreams come true.

kaptaan sahib will be our permanent guest for poolside parties.

la lala la la la .........

Corona Virus

 

Hi, Maddy,

How come you don’t go out these days?

Why are you so quiet these days?

Why are you acting so wise these days?

I know, for sure, that you are just not all that wise.

Well, Jimmy,

I will explain everything in detail. Call everyone by the poolside.

Kitty will not come as she is busy watering the plants. Moreover, she is well informed, she knows everything.

Don’t forget to call the new member ‘Baji’.

O2, of course, is in Bombay with her husband.

Gigloo has gone to the USA and Mogli left for Bihar two days before the lockdown. By the way,  he has left his drum here.

 Don’t fiddle with it.

Sometime later they met by the poolside.  

Well, Maddy said,

“Let me introduce Baji.

 He is a very friendly dog. He is living with us ever since his wife Mastu passed away”.

Why did Gigloo go to States and Mogli to Bihar? asked Jimmy.

Gigloo felt that the USA is a developed country and there were far more opportunities for him and his wife over there. 

As the water table in Punjab was going down and he was scared that our pool may not dry up.

Mogli had to go to Bihar because his wife and children were scared to live alone during this time.

"Both of you should sit six feet apart and I will sit six feet away from both of you", Maddy shouted.

 Here take these face covers and tie them just like I have tied mine. 

There is a new disease which is spreading all over the world. This is caused by a virus called Coronavirus.

Some very senior people called it

 about a month back.

It originated in China in Wuhan and has spread to almost the whole of the world. Thousands of people are dying daily.

Even America has failed to control this disease. They are running short of hospital beds and specialized equipment to treat their population.

There is no treatment, no vaccine against this disease.

Rich and the poor, the developed and the underdeveloped all are equally affected.

The only way we can prevent this disease is by

1) Staying at home

2) Maintaining social distance

3) Washing hands frequently with soap and water

4) Wearing face covers

Why have you lit a candle and put off all the lights? asked Jimmy

Well this a secret, which one very learned man having a great following told me. 

Corona is scared of fire. 

This is   and strictly .